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A pause before every scroll

You check your phone 186 times a day. How many were intentional? PauseMate creates a gentle, science-backed pause before your most distracting apps open.

A pause before app-opening cut visits by up to 47% — CHI 2019
This isn't about willpower.
It's about how your brain works.

Decades of behavioural research show that a brief pause at the right moment changes everything. PauseMate is built on that research.

47%

fewer app opens with escalating friction

An interstitial pause screen before app opening reduced visits by 13% at low friction, 27% at medium, and 47% at high — mirroring PauseMate's escalating nudge design.

Kim, Park, Lee, Ko & Lee, 2019. ACM CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems. KAIST.
71%

followed through with a specific pause plan

People who set a concrete "when X happens, I will do Y" plan completed their goal 71% of the time — compared to 32% who simply intended to do it.

Gollwitzer & Brandstätter, 1997. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
The "willpower is a muscle" theory was tested across 23 labs and 2,141 participants. It failed. PauseMate doesn't rely on willpower — it builds a system.
Hagger et al., 2016. Perspectives on Psychological Science.
Adapts to your compulsive opens

When you reach for a distracting app, PauseMate interrupts the habit loop. Three nudges that escalate with each re-open within an hour.

1

Breathe

A guided breathing exercise with visual and haptic feedback. Complete one cycle — the impulse often passes on its own.

A focused breathing exercise reduces emotional reactivity — Arch & Craske, 2006
2

Reflect

A short question: why are you reaching for this app right now? Builds self-awareness without self-judgement.

Reappraisal outperforms suppression for regulating emotions — Gross, 2002
3

Wait

A timed delay. 15 to 45 seconds of stillness. Enough time for the autopilot to release and your intention to surface.

Escalating friction reduced app visits by up to 47% — Kim et al., CHI 2019
Complete any nudge and the app unlocks. You're always in control.
Everything in one place

Every feature respects your autonomy while helping you build a real habit.

Focus Sessions

Zero interruptions. Fully block apps for a 25-minute session free — or 50 and 90-minute sessions with Premium. Your boundary, on your terms.

Insights, Without Judgment

A dedicated Insights tab shows today's screen time, your trends, and a 7-day summary of pauses and patterns — all computed on-device. Insights, not guilt trips.

Start With a Reality Check

Onboarding begins by asking how much you think you're on your phone — then shows your real screen time, privately. The gap is the motivation. No guilt, just clarity.

Daily Limit Reminders

Opt into a gentle daily nudge when you pass the screen-time limit you set for yourself. Entirely optional — you're always in control of what you hear from PauseMate.

Build a Real Habit

Track your streak of consecutive mindful days. Gentle motivation that rewards presence, not punishment.

Intent Capture

When you bypass a nudge, capture your reason. Over time, patterns reveal which habits need the most attention.

Now live on the App Store
★★★★★
"I found myself going on Facebook for no reason. This app helps me slow down and think twice before I go on social media — it breaks a destructive habit of distraction."
JoannePW App Store · UK
★★★★★
"A more mature approach to screen time. It's helped me be more intentional about why I'm using a particular app — because I'm an adult."
Shorts and tee App Store · UK
★★★★☆
"Just enough friction to help stop binging on the apps you want on your phone. And when you complete the pause, it gives you a time limit before the app locks again."
subsurfacescatter App Store · US
Available now on the App Store

Free to download — pausing, nudges, streaks and your weekly insights are all included. Premium adds scheduled focus, longer 50 & 90-minute sessions, and extended history.

Try the pause for yourself

PauseMate is free on the App Store. One tap to install — no account, no sign-up.

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Your attention is yours. So is your data.

On-device only

Your usage data, reflections, and habits never leave your phone. There's no server to breach.

No tracking

No analytics SDKs. No advertising IDs. No fingerprinting. We can't even see which apps you pause.

Delete everything

One tap to wipe all data permanently. Uninstall the app and it's as if you were never here.

Questions
Screen Time blocks apps after a time limit — and you tap "Ignore" every time. PauseMate takes a different approach: it creates a mindful moment before you open the app, so you notice the habit and make a conscious choice. When you do want hard blocking (study sessions, work hours), Focus Mode gives you that — but it's always your decision to turn it on.
By default, no. Nudges create a pause — once you complete one, the app unlocks and you choose what to do next. You're always in control. But when you want hard blocking — a study session, work hours, bedtime — you can opt into Focus Mode, which fully blocks apps for a set period. The difference: you set the boundary, not us.
Yes. The core mechanism — a friction screen before app opening — was tested in a 2019 field experiment at KAIST, published at ACM CHI (the top human-computer interaction conference). Escalating friction levels reduced app visits by up to 47%. The habit science draws on peer-reviewed research from NYU and UCL. We cite journal papers, not wellness blogs.
Everything stays on your device. We don't have servers, analytics, or user accounts. Your nudge history, reflections, and focus mode data are stored locally and nowhere else.
Any app on your iPhone. During onboarding, you pick the apps you find most distracting — Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube, or anything else. Change your list anytime.
iOS 17.0 or later. PauseMate uses Apple's FamilyControls framework, which requires a modern version of iOS.
PauseMate
The research is clear.
A pause changes everything.

Free to download. No account required. Your data stays on your device.